怎么知道這份工作適合不適合你?

作者:吉安人事人才網 時間:2019-11-19 10:57:36

當一個人進入一個新的行業時,不論他是否是應屆畢業生,其實對于這個新的領域來說,他都是一張白紙。剛畢業幾年找不到方向,胡亂換了幾份工作,都不滿意。每次跳槽幾乎都有這種感覺。進入了一個新的行業、新的領域,見到的人,做的業務模式等等都是新的,感覺以前積累的東西都作廢了,一切重新開始學,感覺總是要學習半年左右才能入門。

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從事金融行業意味著整天坐在電腦前,咨詢行業常常需要出差、無法和家人/愛人團聚,新聞記者需要盡可能地放棄個人的主觀視角來做到客觀報道、自己的生活常常會被突然發生的新聞事件打亂,一起感悟人生這樣的例子太多,我不再羅列了。

從職業發展的角度來說,我越來越覺得選擇一份職業是選擇一種生活方式:如果你無法適應無休止的加班/晉升緩慢/薪酬一般,那么看似光鮮的PR工作可能不適合你;如果你沒辦法接受長時間和代碼而不是人類打交道,那么薪酬優厚的程序員工作可能不適合你,等等。

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實話講,這個過程其實根本無所謂“對錯”,每個人的興趣喜好不一樣,這個過程只是我認為比較理想的探索/了解世界和自己想要的東西的過程,說簡單點就是多嘗試。經過一個相對不太享受的嘗試過程,以及其中的教訓/總結,之后再做出的選擇會比之前準確一些。